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		<title>Need and Motivation</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Maslow’s hierarchy of needs Abraham Maslow suggests that a person is motivated by an inner programme of needs rather than by external motives such as rewards or punishments. When one of these sets of needs is met we move onto the next. Maslow thought that once a need is met it can no longer be [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=optimizingtalent.wordpress.com&amp;blog=5513656&amp;post=21&amp;subd=optimizingtalent&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong><span style="font-size:x-small;font-family:Versailles-Black;">Maslow’s hierarchy of needs</span></strong><span style="font-size:x-small;font-family:Versailles-Roman;"></p>
<p align="left">Abraham Maslow suggests that a person is motivated by an</p>
<p align="left">inner programme of needs rather than by external motives</p>
<p align="left">such as rewards or punishments. When one of these sets of</p>
<p align="left">needs is met we move onto the next. Maslow thought that once</p>
<p align="left">a need is met it can no longer be a motivator. Human beings</p>
<p align="left">have a characteristic of always desiring something so once</p>
<p align="left">one need is fulfilled we automatically move onto the next, and</p>
<p align="left">so on.</p>
<p align="left">A sketch map of individual needs – which is useful for</p>
<p align="left">managers when considering individuals – can be drawn from</p>
<p align="left">Maslow’s hierarchy of needs (1954), but it must be borne in</p>
<p align="left">mind that his theory does not fully appreciate individual differences</p>
<p align="left">or that each person has a unique set of needs and values.</p>
<div><strong><span style="font-size:xx-small;font-family:Versailles-Bold;"><strong></strong></span></strong></div>
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<p align="left"><span style="font-size:x-small;font-family:Versailles-Roman;">Maslow identified five motivating factors in his hierarchy of</span><strong><span style="font-size:x-small;font-family:Versailles-Bold;"></p>
<p align="left">1 Physiological needs (including hunger, thirst and sleep)</p>
<p align="left">2 Safety needs (security and protection from danger)</p>
<p align="left">3 Social needs (belonging, acceptance, social life, friendship</p>
<p align="left">and love)</p>
<p align="left">4 Self-esteem (self-respect, achievement, status and</p>
<p align="left">recognition)</p>
<p align="left">5 Self-actualisation (growth, accomplishment and personal</p>
<p align="left">development).</p>
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<p></span></strong><span style="font-size:x-small;font-family:Versailles-Roman;"></p>
<p align="left">However, points to bear in mind:</p>
<p align="left">• Individuals do not necessarily move up the hierarchy on</p>
<p align="left">the principle that a ‘satisfied need ceases to motivate’</p>
<p align="left">although that can be the case. Just because the social needs</p>
<p align="left">have been met doesn’t automatically mean that you move</p>
<p align="left">on to the esteem needs.</p>
<p align="left">• Different levels of needs can kick in at random points on</p>
<p align="left">the scale toward the full satisfaction of all the needs. For</p>
<p align="left">example, our physiological and security needs are more</p>
<p align="left">basic and if we are threatened we would move down the</p>
<p align="left">ladder to defend ourselves.</p>
<p align="left">• Culture, age and other factors can affect the importance</p>
<p align="left">of the different needs to different people, and at different</p>
<p align="left">stages in their lives.</p>
<p align="left">• The satisfying of some needs can be sacrificed in order to</p>
<p align="left">try and satisfy higher level needs. For example, some people</p>
<p align="left">would be willing to go without the more basic needs in</p>
<p align="left">order to fulfil their needs for achievement and recognition.</p>
<div><strong><span style="font-size:xx-small;color:#666666;font-family:Versailles-Bold;"><strong></strong></span></strong></div>
<p></span><strong></p>
<p align="left"><span style="font-size:xx-small;font-family:Versailles-Light;">MOTIVATION </span></p>
<p align="left"><strong></strong></p>
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<p><span style="font-size:x-small;font-family:Versailles-Roman;"></p>
<p align="left">• Each person will have individual differences and unique sets</p>
<p align="left">of needs which will change at different stages of their lives.</p>
<p align="left">Despite these points the hierarchy can still be useful to the leader</p>
<p align="left">in considering each of the team members and their motivational</p>
<p>priorities.</p>
<p> </p>
<p></span> </p>
<p></strong></p>
<p align="left">needs:</p>
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		<title>Motivation</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Motivation is about something within you impelling you to move ADAIR ON TEAMBUILDING AND MOTIVATION Self-motivation can be as difficult as motivating others and you cannot have one without the other. Understanding what moves an individual to action is crucial in a manager being able to engage the persons will to act. Motives (which operate [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=optimizingtalent.wordpress.com&amp;blog=5513656&amp;post=19&amp;subd=optimizingtalent&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p align="left"><span style="font-size:x-small;font-family:Versailles-Roman;"><strong>Motivation</strong> is about something within you impelling you to move</span></p>
<p align="left"><span style="font-size:xx-small;font-family:Versailles-Light;">ADAIR ON <strong>TEAMBUILDING</strong> AND MOTIVATION</span></p>
<p align="left"><strong>Self-motivation</strong> can be as difficult as motivating others and</p>
<p align="left">you cannot have one without the other.</p>
<p align="left">Understanding what moves an individual to action is crucial</p>
<p align="left">in a manager being able to engage the persons will to act.</p>
<p align="left">Motives (which operate the will which leads to action) are inner</p>
<p align="left">needs or desires and these can be conscious, semi-conscious</p>
<p align="left">or unconscious. We can be driven forwards by more than one</p>
<p align="left">motive at a time. In other words, motives can be mixed, with</p>
<p align="left">several clustered around a primary motive. We may not always</p>
<p align="left">know what out motives are, even though we are able to feel</p>
<p align="left">them, we cannot always label them. Sometimes we attribute</p>
<p align="left">our actions to credible motives (rationalisation) without</p>
<p align="left">realising what the true (usually unconscious) motives are. With</p>
<p align="left">this in mind it makes it quite difficult to think clearly about</p>
<p align="left">motivation as much of it can be unconscious.</p>
<p align="left">To motivate others means to provide an incentive for them to</p>
<p align="left">do something, to initiate their behaviour and to stimulate them</p>
<p align="left">into activity. This can be done by infusing them with your own</p>
<p align="left">spirit, sense of achievement and motivational thoughts. You can</p>
<p align="left">improve your ability to inspire and motivate other people by:</p>
<p align="left">• Understanding what motivates you and others at work<span style="font-size:x-small;font-family:Versailles-Roman;"><strong> if you have a clear picture of what motivates you, you will</strong></span></p>
<div><strong></strong></div>
<p><span style="font-size:x-small;font-family:Versailles-Bold;"></span></p>
<p align="left"><span style="font-family:Versailles-Bold;font-size:x-small;"><strong>• Being aware of different dimensions of motivation</strong></span></p>
<p align="left">
<p><strong> </strong><span style="font-size:x-small;font-family:Versailles-Roman;"><strong>you </strong></span><span style="font-size:x-small;font-family:Versailles-Roman;"><strong>can easily learn the generalisations about people and how </strong><strong>to motivate them, but you need to remember that each </strong><strong>individual person is unique and will therefore respond to </strong><strong>different stimulants.</strong></span></p>
<div><strong></strong></div>
<p><span style="font-size:x-small;font-family:Versailles-Bold;"></span></p>
<p align="left"><span style="font-family:Versailles-Bold;font-size:x-small;"><strong>• Developing your skills as a leader</strong></span></p>
<p align="left">
<p><span style="font-size:x-small;font-family:Versailles-Roman;"><strong>: part of the role of being </strong></span><span style="font-size:x-small;font-family:Versailles-Roman;"><strong>a manager is the ability to lead. This ability to lead means </strong><strong>what you ‘do’ as a leader, and includes motivating and </strong><strong>inspiring your team.</strong></span></p>
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<p align="left"><strong></strong></p>
<p><span style="font-size:xx-small;font-family:Versailles-Light;"><strong>MOTIVATION </strong></span></p>
<p align="left"><strong>be able to better understand what motivates others.</strong></p>
<p align="left">forwards, to achieve a goal, to make progress in a task. The</p>
<p align="left">‘something’ which is the driving force may be a need, or a desire,</p>
<p align="left">or an emotion but it leads you to act in a certain way. Signs</p>
<p align="left">of motivation in a person are an energy and determination to</p>
<p align="left">achieve.</p>
<p align="left">Typical qualities of a motivated person include:</p>
<p align="left">• A willingness to work</p>
<p align="left">• Dedication to the project or common cause</p>
<p align="left">• Alignment of the person with the organisational goals</p>
<p align="left">• Commitment</p>
<p align="left">• An appetite to achieve</p>
<p align="left">• An energy</p>
<p align="left">• Drive and determination</p>
<p align="left">• Tenacity</p>
<p align="left">• Strength of purpose</p>
<p align="left">• Orientation to work.</p>
<p align="left">To be able to get the best from people, to achieve results through</p>
<p align="left">individuals and teams and to maintain consistent high performance,</p>
<p align="left">is all about inspiring oneself and others into action – this</p>
<p align="left">all depends on the skills of motivation and leadership.</p>
<div><strong><span style="font-size:xx-small;font-family:Versailles-Bold;"><strong></strong></span></strong></div>
<p align="left"><strong>Adair’s eight rules in motivating people</strong></p>
<p align="left"><span style="font-size:xx-small;font-family:Versailles-Bold;"><strong></strong></span></p>
<div><span style="font-size:x-small;font-family:Versailles-Roman;"><strong>1 Be motivated yourself</strong></span></p>
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<p align="left"><strong></strong></p>
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<p align="left"><strong>2 Select people who are highly motivated</strong></p>
<p align="left"><strong>3 Treat each person as an individual</strong></p>
<p align="left"><strong>4 Set realistic and challenging targets</strong></p>
<p align="left"><strong>5 Remember that progress motivates</strong></p>
<p align="left"><strong>6 Create a motivating environment</strong></p>
<p align="left"><strong>7 Provide fair rewards</strong></p>
<p><strong>8 Give recognition</strong></p>
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		<description><![CDATA[A Brain-based Learning Strategy that Works: 10 Ways to Improve Reading, Writing, and Just about Anything Else (for kids and for you too) by Dr. MaryJo Wagner Summary: Discover different ways to cross the midline and why this is important for reading comprehension, handwriting, and even as a test taking strategy. * * * For [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=optimizingtalent.wordpress.com&amp;blog=5513656&amp;post=13&amp;subd=optimizingtalent&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height:normal;margin:0 0 10pt;"><strong><span style="font-size:10pt;font-family:&quot;">A Brain-based Learning Strategy that Works: </span></strong><strong><span style="font-size:10pt;font-family:&quot;"><br />
</span></strong><strong><span style="font-size:10pt;font-family:&quot;">10 Ways to Improve Reading, Writing, and Just about Anything Else</span></strong><strong><span style="font-size:10pt;font-family:&quot;"><br />
</span></strong><strong><span style="font-size:10pt;font-family:&quot;">(for kids and for you too)</span></strong><strong><span style="font-size:13.5pt;font-family:&quot;"></span></strong></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height:normal;margin:0 0 10pt;"><span style="font-size:10pt;font-family:&quot;">by Dr. MaryJo Wagner</span><span style="font-size:12pt;font-family:&quot;"></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height:normal;margin:0 0 10pt;"><em><span style="font-size:10pt;font-family:&quot;">Summary: Discover different ways to cross the midline and<br />
why this is important for reading comprehension, handwriting,<br />
and even as a test taking strategy. </span></em><span style="font-size:12pt;font-family:&quot;"></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height:normal;text-align:center;margin:0 0 10pt;" align="center"><em><span style="font-size:10pt;font-family:&quot;">* * *</span></em><span style="font-size:12pt;font-family:&quot;"></span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:10pt;line-height:115%;font-family:&quot;">For those of us old enough to have grandkids, we were taught in<br />
one way. And certainly not in a way that took into account what<br />
we know today about brain-based learning or using the whole<br />
brain.</p>
<p>Teachers emphasized rote memorization and copying. Later<br />
listening to lectures and taking notes. Some of us did pretty<br />
well with that method. Especially those of us who are left-brain<br />
dominant. We even went on to college.</p>
<p>Others, often very smart children, didn’t do so well. Their<br />
brains simply worked in a different way. Maybe they were right-<br />
brain dominant. Maybe they learned more efficiently using<br />
kinesthetic skills.</p>
<p>Researchers have recently discovered that whole-brain learning or<br />
brain-based learning is not only a more efficient way of learning<br />
but helps more kids learn.</p>
<p>One the many features of brain-based learning involves using<br />
both the right side and the left side of the brain. Although none<br />
of our kids is just left brain or just right brain, most of them<br />
have a dominance. Few of us use both sides of our brain equally.</p>
<p>For example, if Susie&#8217;s really good in math, she&#8217;s probably left-<br />
brain dominant. Or maybe Johnny&#8217;s an artist extraordinaire. He&#8217;s<br />
probably right-brain dominant. Nothing wrong with Susie or<br />
Johnny&#8217;s brain dominance, but wouldn&#8217;t it be great if Johnny did<br />
better in math? Or Susie was able to develop some artistic<br />
skills?</p>
<p>These kids will benefit from brain-based learning. They’ll<br />
improve in those skills they were lacking. They’ll be able to use<br />
both sides of the brain.</p>
<p>Learning to read and write requires using both sides of the<br />
brain. In fact learning just about anything well, thinking<br />
clearly, and even problem solving involves using the right and<br />
left hemispheres of the front part of the brain.</p>
<p>How do you accomplish this? Easy? Just move across the center<br />
mid-line of your body. Every time you move your right arm to your<br />
left side or your left arm to your right side, you’re crossing<br />
the mid-line and improving learning, thinking, and problem<br />
solving. And you’re demonstrating brain-based learning.</p>
<p>Works for you. Works for kids.</p>
<p>1. Give yourself a big hug.</p>
<p>2. If you’re right handed, put the phone on the left side of your<br />
desk. Use your right hand to reach for it.</p>
<p>3. Dance the hula. Or play with a hula hoop.</p>
<p>4. Take a Brain Boosters TeleChat. Check it out at<br />
www.brainboostersforyourkids.com Or a Brain Gym class.<br />
www.BrainGymClasses.com</p>
<p>5. Learn square dancing. (Actually most dancing crosses the mid-<br />
line. The best of all is doing the Twist—O.K, if you weren’t<br />
around in the 1950s, you’ll have to ask somebody to show you<br />
how.)</p>
<p>6. Rake some leaves, making sure you’re raking off to the side<br />
instead of straight in front of you.</p>
<p>7. Play a board game. (Use your right hand to move your piece when<br />
it’s in the left corner; your left hand to move your piece when<br />
it’s in the right corner.)</p>
<p>8. Practice using your non-dominant hand to reach for things on<br />
the opposite side of your body. Even writing and drawing with<br />
your non-dominant hand helps. (You’ll get better with practice.)</p>
<p>9.Do Yoga and Tai Chi. Lots of moves cross the mid-line.</p>
<p>10. Cross your ankles and arms in front or in back when you’re<br />
doing jumping jacks. Kids can usually do this. If you can’t, try<br />
it in the swimming pool. Just crossing your arms while doing<br />
jumping jacks is a start.</p>
<p>Brain-based learning really isn’t all that complicated. Lots of<br />
everyday kinds of activities get the whole brain active. Sitting<br />
around watching TV, however, isn’t one of them! You’ve go to<br />
move.</p>
<p>MaryJo Wagner, Ph.D.<br />
The Learning Doctor<br />
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		<description><![CDATA[After a long day of blogging, my dear dog Bonnie greets me at the door with blind adoration. All that love is such an ego boost. Pets are good for more than your self-esteem. Besides being great buddies, according to WebMD pets can also improve your health in these five ways: Prevent allergies: Many new [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=optimizingtalent.wordpress.com&amp;blog=5513656&amp;post=10&amp;subd=optimizingtalent&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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<p>After a long day of blogging, my dear dog <a href="http://teamsugar.com/pet/725196"><span style="text-decoration:underline;"><span style="color:#0000ff;">Bonnie</span></span></a> greets me at the door with blind adoration. All that love is such an ego boost. <a href="http://www.petsugar.com/"><span style="text-decoration:underline;"><span style="color:#0000ff;">Pets</span></span></a> are good for more than your self-esteem. Besides being great buddies, according to <a href="http://www.webmd.com/hypertension-high-blood-pressure/guide/5-ways-pets-improve-your-health" target="_blank"><span style="text-decoration:underline;"><span style="color:#0000ff;">WebMD</span></span></a> pets can also improve your health in these five ways:</p>
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<li><strong>Prevent allergies:</strong> Many new studies show that children who grow up in a household with furry animals or on a farm, have less risk for <a href="http://www.fitsugar.com/tags/allergies"><span style="text-decoration:underline;"><span style="color:#0000ff;">allergies</span></span></a>, and asthma and a stronger immune system.</li>
<li><strong>Friend magnets:</strong> Pets are natural conversation starters so your pet can help you meet people if you have social anxiety or chronic shyness.</li>
<li><strong>Benefit the aged:</strong> For the elderly, caring for a pet can offer exercise and companionship. Studies have also shown that for Alzheimer&#8217;s patients, those who have a pet have fewer anxious outbursts.</li>
<li><strong>Good for the mind and soul:</strong> Those who have pets are less likely to suffer from depression, are better equipped to handle stressful situations, and they also have lower <a href="http://www.fitsugar.com/1696548"><span style="text-decoration:underline;"><span style="color:#0000ff;">blood pressure</span></span></a>.</li>
<li><strong>Good for your heart:</strong> Pet owners who suffer from a heart attack will live longer than those who are petless. Studies have also shown that men who own pets have lower <a href="http://www.fitsugar.com/1875927"><span style="text-decoration:underline;"><span style="color:#0000ff;">cholesterol</span></span></a>.</li>
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		<description><![CDATA[The following story illustrates the idea of anchoring. Many years ago, a friend and I were extremely amused by something that happened. The event became associated with the expression ‘windscreen wipers’. Afterwards, whenever we or anyone else said, ‘windscreen wipers’, we would burst out laughing. Our pointless laughing at the word ‘windscreen wipers’ annoyed others [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=optimizingtalent.wordpress.com&amp;blog=5513656&amp;post=7&amp;subd=optimizingtalent&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin:0 0 10pt;"><span lang="EN-CA"><span style="font-size:small;"><span style="font-family:Calibri;">The following story illustrates the idea of <strong>anchoring.</strong></span></span></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin:0 0 10pt;"><span lang="EN-CA"><span style="font-size:small;"><span style="font-family:Calibri;">Many years ago, a friend and I were extremely amused by something that happened.<span> </span>The event became associated with the expression ‘windscreen wipers’.<span> </span>Afterwards, whenever we or anyone<span> </span>else said, ‘windscreen wipers’, we would burst out laughing.<span> </span>Our pointless laughing at the word ‘windscreen wipers’ annoyed others who could not ‘see’ the joke.<span> </span>Bursting out laughing when one or the other of us said, ‘windscreen wipers’ seemed crazy to other people! The windscreen wipers had become associated with something amusing, and thereafter, whenever we said, ‘windscreen wipers’, it made us lough just as the incident made us laugh in the past.<span> </span>Has something similar ever happened to you? Have you ever associated things in some irrational way?<span> </span>We all have thousands of experiences, although we might not be aware of them all.<span> </span>We might even consider them <strong>rational</strong>!</span></span></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin:0 0 10pt;"><span lang="EN-CA"><span style="font-size:small;"><span style="font-family:Calibri;">In the story above, the neutral phrase ‘windscreen wipers’ had become anchored to a state<span> </span>of amusement.<span> </span>Whenever we wanted to laugh again, we had only to say ‘windscreen wipers’.<span> </span>Windscreen wipers became atrigger for evoking laughter, by anchoring a state of amusement with the phrase.</span></span></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin:0 0 10pt;"><span lang="EN-CA"><span style="font-size:small;"><span style="font-family:Calibri;">Actualy this anchor still seems pretty funny to me today, many years later, wich shows that anchor can remain effective years later.<span> </span>Any sound, object, picture, smell, words, etc, evoke emotions, thoughts or states, etc.</span></span></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin:0 0 10pt;"><span style="font-size:14pt;color:red;line-height:115%;" lang="EN-CA"><span style="font-family:Calibri;">Designer Anchors</span></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin:0 0 10pt;"><span lang="EN-CA"><span style="font-size:small;"><span style="font-family:Calibri;">Anchor can be created accidentally, but can you create them to order?<span> </span>If you can, then you can learn to control your experience.</span></span></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin:0 0 10pt;"><span lang="EN-CA"><span style="font-size:small;"><span style="font-family:Calibri;">You can use anchors ti deliberately bring experiences under conscious control and produce their effects whenever you need them.<span> </span>For example, if you need to be confident, you can make an anchor to give you that confidence when you need it.<span> </span>For example, you might feel nervous about a meeting, such as a job interview, and you want to be confident.<span> </span>Here’s how you can use anchors to accomplish this!</span></span></span></p>
<p class="MsoListParagraphCxSpFirst" style="text-indent:-18pt;margin:0 0 0 36pt;"><span lang="EN-CA"><span><span style="font-size:small;font-family:Calibri;">1.</span><span style="font:7pt &quot;"> </span></span></span><span lang="EN-CA"><span style="font-size:small;"><span style="font-family:Calibri;">Recall an experience with the resource you require.<span> </span>For example, recall a time when you had the resource, self confidence.</span></span></span></p>
<p class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="text-indent:-18pt;margin:0 0 0 36pt;"><span lang="EN-CA"><span><span style="font-size:small;font-family:Calibri;">2.</span><span style="font:7pt &quot;"> </span></span></span><span lang="EN-CA"><span style="font-size:small;"><span style="font-family:Calibri;">When you <strong>experience</strong> this confidence at its maximum, touch yourself (for example, bring the thumb and forefinger together to make a circle) to anchor self confidence to the touch.</span></span></span></p>
<p class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="text-indent:-18pt;margin:0 0 0 36pt;"><span lang="EN-CA"><span><span style="font-size:small;font-family:Calibri;">3.</span><span style="font:7pt &quot;"> </span></span></span><span lang="EN-CA"><span style="font-size:small;"><span style="font-family:Calibri;">Recall, or imagine several other examples of being confident to strengthen your state and apply the anchor as in previous step.</span></span></span></p>
<p class="MsoListParagraphCxSpLast" style="text-indent:-18pt;margin:0 0 10pt 36pt;"><span lang="EN-CA"><span><span style="font-size:small;font-family:Calibri;">4.</span><span style="font:7pt &quot;"> </span></span></span><span lang="EN-CA"><span style="font-size:small;"><span style="font-family:Calibri;">Test the anchor to see wether it evokes the state you want.<span> </span>If not repeat the above ateps.</span></span></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin:0 0 10pt;"><span lang="EN-CA"><span style="font-size:small;"><span style="font-family:Calibri;">In the steps above we nused feeling (or touch) to create the anchor.<span> </span>You joined the index finger and thumb to form a circle.<span> </span>You can also use a mental picture or a sound to anchor <span> </span>the state you want.<span> </span>You could, if you wished, use all three!</span></span></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin:0 0 10pt;"><span lang="EN-CA"><span style="font-size:small;"><span style="font-family:Calibri;">That is you could touch yourself, recall a mental picture and a sound.<span> </span>For example, you could think a word, say the word “confidence”, touch your cheek, and visualize a circle.<span> </span>When you need to evoke the atate of confidence, you would apply all the anchors.</span></span></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin:0 0 10pt;"><span style="font-size:14pt;color:red;line-height:115%;" lang="EN-CA"><span style="font-family:Calibri;">Anchoring Others</span></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin:0 0 10pt;"><span lang="EN-CA"><span style="font-size:small;"><span style="font-family:Calibri;">You can apply anchors to others using these principles.<span> </span>For examples, every time a person is in a good mood, you could cough, or make a subtle sign.<span> </span>You could touch them.<span> </span>You would does this when they were at<span> </span>the height of the resource state.<span> </span>After anchoring the state</span></span></span></p>
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